In general, there are many couples after marriage separating because there is no understanding with them; actually, a marriage is made with much expenditure. The money is secondary here, only couple thinks about the future and they decide to stay together for the whole life, but the relationship is ending even in one or two months. The reason is before the marriage couples did not attend to counselling. This kind of mistake is leading them to have more misunderstanding; even there is no tolerance power within the couple after the marriage. For simple thing, they fight with each other and they are unable to stay together in their home. Even at the cot, wife is sleeping at one corner, the husband is sleeping at one corner, and there is a big gap in the center place of the cot. Why this kind of mind is with the couple, it is very simple to answer for the above question, because insufficient counselling is made to the couple, that is the reason the couple is with less interest to stay together; the couple is not able to have physical relationship to produce a kid. At the same time, there are many couples after their marriage produced a kid and they are happy about the married life, because the newborn child is attracting the couple, making the couple to stay together.
It is not necessary to produce a kid immediately after the marriage once the couple is with the good understanding. Once the health condition of the husband and wife is perfect, producing a child is not a problem to them; the couple could plan a child whenever they need a child. Therefore, the couple needs only counselling to stay together with clear understanding. The nature of the mind is always suspicious, always thinking about the negative, the mind must have to be changed psychologically to think positive not to suspect the spouse. This kind of change in mind is possible for a couple once they go for counselling starting time of their marriage or after the marriage. However, only counseling is making a mind to stay strong. The mind fitness is not similar to health fitness; the mind fitness needs more attention and more concentration in regular life and in all attitudes. Adjusting mind is necessary for a man and woman the adjusting minds arriving to the mind only once the person is getting counseling from an efficient place at starting time of the marriage or after the marriage is over.
It is not easily possible to find a partner to marry in a city, in this condition a person is finding a partner, deciding to marry, can precede. Even after the marriage the couple can attend counselling, there is no rule for a couple that they should not marry without understanding or without any counselling within them. A couple can decide their marriage, but once they face any problem in their married life, the couple needs counselling in this connection the couple should not compromise and they should think they need more understanding to live together permanently.